Welcome to Consilium® Divorce Consultations
We help our clients effectively navigate their path through divorce and into their next stage.

Navigating Your Path Through Divorce

Welcome to Consilium® Divorce Consultations
We help our clients effectively navigate their path through divorce and into their next stage.

Message from our founder

The Top 3 Mistakes People Make When Contemplating A Divorce

heidi_webbHere is an audio clip of Attorney Heidi Webb, founder of the Consilium Process, explaining why her process helps her clients get the best outcome when facing a possible divorce.


I am eternally grateful to Heidi Webb. This service that she offers is quite unique and invaluable. It takes the heavy burden off the client to find the right lawyer at a most critical time when you need the help the most. She is a highly qualified professional who will match you with the right lawyer for your situation.   —  Susan

Message from our founder

The Top 3 Mistakes People Make When Contemplating A Divorce

heidi_webb

Here is an audio clip of Attorney Heidi Webb, founder of the Consilium Process, explaining why her process helps her clients get the best outcome when facing a possible divorce.






TESTIMONIAL FROM A CLIENT

I am eternally grateful to Heidi Webb. This service that she offers is quite unique and invaluable. It takes the heavy burden off the client to find the right lawyer at a most critical time when you need the help the most. She is a highly qualified professional who will match you with the right lawyer for your situation.   —  Susan

Our Services

While a traditional lawyer will handle the legal aspects of your divorce, as a divorce consultant, my new paradigm includes goal planning before, during and after divorce, a pre-divorce financial review, and emotional support.   Working with a professional who understands the complexity of divorce will allow you to be emotionally supported during the process, while planning for the years following your divorce, and developing a strategy to achieve them.  Our work together will help you maintain stability for your family during this trying time in your life.

The Consilium® Process

The Consilium® Process is a unique, proprietary six-step process developed by Heidi R. Webb and deployed solely by Consilium Divorce Consultations, which holistically addresses the key legal, emotional, and logistical issues people confront when facing a possible divorce, with the goal of charting the optimal path to achieving each client’s distinctive long-term life goals for themselves and their family.

Our Services

While a traditional lawyer will handle the legal aspects of your divorce, as a divorce consultant, my new paradigm includes goal planning before, during and after divorce, a pre-divorce financial review, and emotional support.   Working with a professional who understands the complexity of divorce will allow you to be emotionally supported during the process, while planning for the years following your divorce, and developing a strategy to achieve them.  Our work together will help you maintain stability for your family during this trying time in your life.

The Consilium® Process

The Consilium® Process is a unique, proprietary six-step process developed by Heidi R. Webb and deployed solely by Consilium Divorce Consultations, which holistically addresses the key legal, emotional, and logistical issues people confront when facing a possible divorce, with the goal of charting the optimal path to achieving each client’s distinctive long-term life goals for themselves and their family.

Testimonials

  • Now, one year later, a lot wiser and stronger, and a lot more aware of my own needs, both emotionally and physically, I can say I see the light at the end of the tunnel. The journey, though painful at times, has also been enlightening, challenging, rewarding, reaffirming, and ultimately one from which I feel I have grown tremendously.

    I cannot thank you enough for your support, guidance, referrals, and holistic approach to dealing with the separation.  I gained an awareness of myself and what is truly important to me going forward. I know there will continue to be emotional highs and lows in the coming months as I go to court and when the divorce becomes final, but I think I have weathered the worst of it. I’m not sure I would be at this point if it weren’t for your kindness and reassurance back two years ago when I began this journey. It was the most difficult time of my life, for many reasons, and I’m not sure I could have navigated it all without your help     —     Joyce

  • I was referred to Heidi at the outset when divorce was still just a possibility and am very pleased that I was. She listened carefully, helped weigh the choices (post nup; separation; divorce) and then, as things evolved and we moved toward a divorce, she sized up my spouse’s counsel and made a referral that was superb. Against a top-dollar blow-hard she aligned a genteel and careful lawyer who constantly made the right calls about where things were going, what was posturing, what was real, and where (and this did happen) my own instincts were wrong. In the end she resolved everything exactly as she always said they would resolve, and I was completely satisfied with the outcome. And with Heidi’s solid referral. I highly recommend her.     —     David

  • Dear Heidi, I wonder if you realize how important your words are to me?     —     Heather

  • When my marriage failed, Heidi provided objective, realistic, and compassionate guidance through the process of rebuilding my family. For me, divorce was an intimidating process I never imagined I’d face. It was difficult to know where to turn for advice. Without Heidi, my only resource was the few friends who had been through it before.  That’s helpful, but it is also dangerous because a small, random and probably biased sample doesn’t give you much of an idea of what to expect or how to proceed. Heidi helped me put my divorce in context and navigate my way through so that I had faith that the lawyer I hired and legal process that ensued was the right course for my family. Her vast experience with divorcing families and the divorce process gave me invaluable perspective and support – from how to help myself, my soon-to-be-ex-spouse and my children accept and adjust to change to insightful analysis of how the law applied to my situation. And she also provided hope that when it was over, I would come out the other side intact, stronger and wiser.  I am forever grateful.      —     Kathryn

  • I came to Heidi Webb on a friend’s recommendation that she would be a good person to speak with regarding finding legal counsel for my divorce. They said she would meet with me and take my information and then provide some good matches in terms of possible lawyers to act on my behalf. I never had to find a lawyer before so the whole thing was a bit terrifying.  As soon as I met with her I felt immediately relaxed and at ease. She was very caring, sincere and understanding.  She really listened to my story and immediately gave me lots of very good advice. I found her to be extremely competent and knowledgeable. Her depth of human understanding coupled with her legal expertise and experience made me feel like I was in good hands. I trusted her completely to guide me in the right direction.
    With her expertise she put together an initial list of lawyers that might be a good match, which she had thoroughly researched and carefully interviewed on the phone and then narrowed it down to a select few. She communicated to me all her reasoning and thought processes about why she selected these lawyers. I then was able to make the final phone call and interview the ones she had carefully selected for me. Her matching was so on target that I hired the first lawyer she had recommended to me and was very pleased with this choice. She not only saved me a great deal of time and energy but I believe the matching process she skillfully performed with her particular expertise and background put me in a much better position to find the right lawyer than I would have on my own. She did all the hard work for me so I could focus on all the other things I had to do at that critical time. Now that my divorce is final, I can say with absolute certainty that she found me an extremely competent and wonderful lawyer who was truly a great match for me.
    I am eternally grateful to Heidi Webb. This service that she offers is quite unique and invaluable. It takes the heavy burden off the client to find the right lawyer at a most critical time when you need the help the most. She is a highly qualified professional who will match you with the right lawyer for your situation.     —     Susan

Testimonials

David

yellowI was referred to Heidi at the outset when divorce was still just a possibility and am very pleased that I was. She listened carefully, helped weigh the choices (post nup; separation; divorce) and then, as things evolved and we moved toward a divorce, she sized up my spouse’s counsel and made a referral that was superb. Against a top-dollar blow-hard she aligned a genteel and careful lawyer who constantly made the right calls about where things were going, what was posturing, what was real, and where (and this did happen) my own instincts were wrong. In the end she resolved everything exactly as she always said they would resolve, and I was completely satisfied with the outcome. And with Heidi’s solid referral. I highly recommend her.     —     David

Joyce

redNow, one year later, a lot wiser and stronger, and a lot more aware of my own needs, both emotionally and physically, I can say I see the light at the end of the tunnel. The journey, though painful at times, has also been enlightening, challenging, rewarding, reaffirming, and ultimately one from which I feel I have grown tremendously.

I cannot thank you enough for your support, guidance, referrals, and holistic approach to dealing with the separation.  I gained an awareness of myself and what is truly important to me going forward. I know there will continue to be emotional highs and lows in the coming months as I go to court and when the divorce becomes final, but I think I have weathered the worst of it. I’m not sure I would be at this point if it weren’t for your kindness and reassurance back two years ago when I began this journey. It was the most difficult time of my life, for many reasons, and I’m not sure I could have navigated it all without your help     —     Joyce

Heather

blueDear Heidi, I wonder if you realize how important your words are to me?     —     Heather

Kathryn

purpleWhen my marriage failed, Heidi provided objective, realistic, and compassionate guidance through the process of rebuilding my family. For me, divorce was an intimidating process I never imagined I’d face. It was difficult to know where to turn for advice. Without Heidi, my only resource was the few friends who had been through it before.  That’s helpful, but it is also dangerous because a small, random and probably biased sample doesn’t give you much of an idea of what to expect or how to proceed. Heidi helped me put my divorce in context and navigate my way through so that I had faith that the lawyer I hired and legal process that ensued was the right course for my family. Her vast experience with divorcing families and the divorce process gave me invaluable perspective and support – from how to help myself, my soon-to-be-ex-spouse and my children accept and adjust to change to insightful analysis of how the law applied to my situation. And she also provided hope that when it was over, I would come out the other side intact, stronger and wiser.  I am forever grateful.      —     Kathryn

Susan

green&yellowI came to Heidi Webb on a friend’s recommendation that she would be a good person to speak with regarding finding legal counsel for my divorce. They said she would meet with me and take my information and then provide some good matches in terms of possible lawyers to act on my behalf. I never had to find a lawyer before so the whole thing was a bit terrifying.  As soon as I met with her I felt immediately relaxed and at ease. She was very caring, sincere and understanding.  She really listened to my story and immediately gave me lots of very good advice. I found her to be extremely competent and knowledgeable. Her depth of human understanding coupled with her legal expertise and experience made me feel like I was in good hands. I trusted her completely to guide me in the right direction.
With her expertise she put together an initial list of lawyers that might be a good match, which she had thoroughly researched and carefully interviewed on the phone and then narrowed it down to a select few. She communicated to me all her reasoning and thought processes about why she selected these lawyers. I then was able to make the final phone call and interview the ones she had carefully selected for me. Her matching was so on target that I hired the first lawyer she had recommended to me and was very pleased with this choice. She not only saved me a great deal of time and energy but I believe the matching process she skillfully performed with her particular expertise and background put me in a much better position to find the right lawyer than I would have on my own. She did all the hard work for me so I could focus on all the other things I had to do at that critical time. Now that my divorce is final, I can say with absolute certainty that she found me an extremely competent and wonderful lawyer who was truly a great match for me.
I am eternally grateful to Heidi Webb. This service that she offers is quite unique and invaluable. It takes the heavy burden off the client to find the right lawyer at a most critical time when you need the help the most. She is a highly qualified professional who will match you with the right lawyer for your situation.     —     Susan

News & Media Highlights

June 2012

WBZ’s Jordan Rich talks with attorney Heidi Webb, expert in Divorce Consultation.

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Recent Blog Posts

Sign up to receive Heidi Webb’s monthly web blog in your email in-box.

Keep up to date with interesting information regarding the divorce process and how to navigate ones path to a successful outcome. Heidi provides inspiration, useful links, and community resources that will empower and enlighten. Consilium events are posted and discussion and comments are welcome.

News & Media Highlights

June 2012

WBZ’s Jordan Rich talks with attorney Heidi Webb, expert in Divorce Consultation.

massachusetts-tourism-boston-skylinewbz-radio-logo

Recent Blog Posts

Sign up to receive Heidi Webb’s monthly web blog in your email in-box.

Keep up to date with interesting information regarding the divorce process and how to navigate ones path to a successful outcome. Heidi provides inspiration, useful links, and community resources that will empower and enlighten. Consilium events are posted and discussion and comments are welcome.

Events

EVENTS

Upcoming Events

JULY

“Webinar – Women & Divorce: Planning for the New Beginning”

Divorce has reached epidemic proportions in the United States, and we all know that it takes an emotional toll on the individuals involved, and on their families. One way to reduce the stress is to become an educated consumer.

Please join Anthony Mancini of Morgan Stanley’s DM Advisory Group for a FREE webinar, when he interviews Attorney Heidi Webb of Consilium ® Divorce Consultations.  They will discuss the advantages and disadvantages of choosing Mediation, Collaboration or Litigation when deciding the best process for divorce.

Anthony will be conducting an ongoing series of webinars with Attorney Webb. Future interviews will cover the following topics:

  •  Custody and Co-parenting
  •  Child and Spousal support
  •  Division of marital assets
  •  Dealing with your credit
  •  Health, Medical Insurance and Retirement
  •  Estate Planning

Whether you are a woman currently going through a divorce, or you have recently resolved your marital issues, learn how to keep control of your future by becoming an informed consumer.

DATE/TIME – July 28th at 12:30 PM
DURATION – 25 minutes

Click Here To Join The Webinar – ENTER WEBINAR HERE

FIRST-TIME USERS – To save time before the meeting, check your system to make sure it is ready to use Microsoft Office Live Meeting.

http://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?LinkId=90703

 FOR AUDIO
Toll Free –  877 777-0154
Participant Code – 721511

OCTOBER

International Association of Collaborative Professionals
Washington, DC
October 15th-18th

Heidi Webb to speak on:
How an Instinctual Tendency Inventory (ITI) might better inform the Collaborative Practice.

Heidi created the ITI in an effort to help practitioners refine their team interactions so that clients can optimize their outcomes.

The ITI is intended to help lawyers, coaches and financial neutrals better understand their own tendencies by answering questions like:

As a Collaborative Lawyer, is your strongest instinctual tendency as an Advocate or a Professional Team Player?
As a Collaborative Coach, do you identify most as a Process Facilitator or as a Guide? and
As a Financial Neutral, do you tend to see yourself as a Problem Solver or a Decision Maker?

April

Holistic Separation and Divorce
“Learn the keys to drafting a peaceful resolution”
April 15th 4:00 pm- 6:00 pm
April 26th 6:30 pm- 8:30 pm
Café at 160 Gould Street,
Needham, MA

RSVP to Mandy at 781-446-5048

Divorce Consultant Heidi Webb and Financial Advisor Deanna Coyle will help you navigate your pathway through your separation and divorce with a holistic approach to the process. Both of these women
understand the importance of managing the legal and financial pressures while recognizing the need to address the emotional consequences of this process.
Heidi will explain her role as a consultant showing you the benefits of having someone review all legal and financial consequences, find a lawyer that fits your unique circumstances, help you feel supported during this process and start to plan for your future.
Deanna will guide you through one of the primary issues that needs to be discussed during divorce: “How do we divide our assets?” All divorcing couples must divide their marital property and assign marital debts as part of the divorce process. However, we can’t loose sight of establishing a new personal financial plan including rebuilding your net worth and saving for retirement as a solo entity but equally important is rebuilding your net worth post divorce.

JUNE

Heidi Webb to speak on:
How an Instinctual Tendency Inventory (ITI) might better inform the Collaborative Practice.

Heidi created the ITI in an effort to help practitioners refine their team interactions so that clients can optimize their outcomes.

The ITI is intended to help lawyers, coaches and financial neutrals better understand their own tendencies by answering questions like:

As a Collaborative Lawyer, is your strongest instinctual tendency as an Advocate or a Professional Team Player?
As a Collaborative Coach, do you identify most as a Process Facilitator or as a Guide? and
As a Financial Neutral, do you tend to see yourself as a Problem Solver or a Decision Maker?

Past Events –  2014

Divorce: Practical, Legal, and Psychological Dimensions – 3 CEs
Friday, December 5, 2014
9:00 AM – 12:15 PM (Registration 8:30 AM.
Holiday Inn Boston-Dedham Hotel
55 Ariadne Road
Dedham, MA  02026
Presenter: Kevin Kozin, MTS, LICSW and Heidi Webb, JD, MEd.

For Information about this event, go to The NASW Mass. Chapter website.

If you begin your journey with a destination, you’re much more likely to arrive where you intend to end up.

Events

EVENTS

April

Holistic Separation and Divorce
“Learn the keys to drafting a peaceful resolution”
April 15th 4:00 pm- 6:00 pm
April 26th 6:30 pm- 8:30 pm
Café at 160 Gould Street,
Needham, MA

RSVP to Mandy at 781-446-5048

Divorce Consultant Heidi Webb and Financial Advisor Deanna Coyle will help you navigate your pathway through your separation and divorce with a holistic approach to the process. Both of these women
understand the importance of managing the legal and financial pressures while recognizing the need to address the emotional consequences of this process.
Heidi will explain her role as a consultant showing you the benefits of having someone review all legal and financial consequences, find a lawyer that fits your unique circumstances, help you feel supported during this process and start to plan for your future.
Deanna will guide you through one of the primary issues that needs to be discussed during divorce: “How do we divide our assets?” All divorcing couples must divide their marital property and assign marital debts as part of the divorce process. However, we can’t loose sight of establishing a new personal financial plan including rebuilding your net worth and saving for retirement as a solo entity but equally important is rebuilding your net worth post divorce.

JUNE

Heidi Webb to speak on:
How an Instinctual Tendency Inventory (ITI) might better inform the Collaborative Practice.

Heidi created the ITI in an effort to help practitioners refine their team interactions so that clients can optimize their outcomes.

The ITI is intended to help lawyers, coaches and financial neutrals better understand their own tendencies by answering questions like:

As a Collaborative Lawyer, is your strongest instinctual tendency as an Advocate or a Professional Team Player?
As a Collaborative Coach, do you identify most as a Process Facilitator or as a Guide? and
As a Financial Neutral, do you tend to see yourself as a Problem Solver or a Decision Maker?

Past Events –  2014

Divorce: Practical, Legal, and Psychological Dimensions – 3 CEs
Friday, December 5, 2014
9:00 AM – 12:15 PM (Registration 8:30 AM.
Holiday Inn Boston-Dedham Hotel
55 Ariadne Road
Dedham, MA  02026
Presenter: Kevin Kozin, MTS, LICSW and Heidi Webb, JD, MEd.

For Information about this event, go to The NASW Mass. Chapter website.

Upcoming Events –  2015

JULY

“Webinar – Women & Divorce: Planning for the New Beginning”

Divorce has reached epidemic proportions in the United States, and we all know that it takes an emotional toll on the individuals involved, and on their families. One way to reduce the stress is to become an educated consumer.

Please join Anthony Mancini of Morgan Stanley’s DM Advisory Group for a FREE webinar, when he interviews Attorney Heidi Webb of Consilium ® Divorce Consultations.  They will discuss the advantages and disadvantages of choosing Mediation, Collaboration or Litigation when deciding the best process for divorce.

Anthony will be conducting an ongoing series of webinars with Attorney Webb. Future interviews will cover the following topics:

  •  Custody and Co-parenting
  •  Child and Spousal support
  •  Division of marital assets
  •  Dealing with your credit
  •  Health, Medical Insurance and Retirement
  •  Estate Planning

Whether you are a woman currently going through a divorce, or you have recently resolved your marital issues, learn how to keep control of your future by becoming an informed consumer.

DATE/TIME – July 28th at 12:30 PM
DURATION – 25 minutes

Click Here To Join The Webinar – ENTER WEBINAR HERE

FIRST-TIME USERS – To save time before the meeting, check your system to make sure it is ready to use Microsoft Office Live Meeting.

http://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/?LinkId=90703

 FOR AUDIO
Toll Free –  877 777-0154
Participant Code – 721511

October

International Association of Collaborative Professionals
Washington, DC
October 15th-18th

Heidi Webb to speak on:
How an Instinctual Tendency Inventory (ITI) might better inform the Collaborative Practice.

Heidi created the ITI in an effort to help practitioners refine their team interactions so that clients can optimize their outcomes.

The ITI is intended to help lawyers, coaches and financial neutrals better understand their own tendencies by answering questions like:

As a Collaborative Lawyer, is your strongest instinctual tendency as an Advocate or a Professional Team Player?
As a Collaborative Coach, do you identify most as a Process Facilitator or as a Guide? and
As a Financial Neutral, do you tend to see yourself as a Problem Solver or a Decision Maker?

Feeling Overwhelmed? Paralyzed? Consilium Divorce Consultations can Help you Gain Clarity and Control.